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Get Back Together With Your Ex Just By Becoming Less Available And An Increased Challenge For Her
You used to be a challenge for her. You had a high significance and she was irresistibly drawn to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I am about to make a wild guess here, however can it be that as time went on, you became less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that currently, you're zero challenge for her? And that she believes if she wanted to, at any time she could easily get you back again and wrapped around her finger just by saying the word?
Now I'm going to be a bit crude here, however as you may already know, to develop into a challenge again you have to show to your ex that her sexuality has no control over you any longer. Take into account what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which think of just what it is like when you keep doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You will be indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other options.
Your sweetheart is not going to respect you again until you refuse her sexual influence over you. Thankfully you're doing that now by not personally corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
You should definitely stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Don't be "friends" with her, as that rewards your ex with the continued validation of power over you while supplying her a comfortable reason to stay separated. (Your ex reasons that she's letting you down easy this way, assuaging any remorse she may feel.)
On the other hand, always keep her locked in with your things. More than likely quite a few your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She could request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want everything back.
The best response to this is "No, not yet. The justification is simply because her possessing your things (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.
For the up coming 3 weeks, you need to fully accept -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you are an independent guy now. Take what took place with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You've got a great chance to revolutionize your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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